Its all gonna be okay!

Imagine the content of your character appeared on your skin and that would be your complexion. Imagine you wake up one day and your complexion suddenly changes. Imagine every sin you do, make your skin one tone darker. And now imagine this all is happening to you and you don’t even realize. How do we define beauty? Maybe the color of your skin defines beauty. Living in a society where a healthy girl cannot walk on the ramp and a tan girl cannot play the role of heroine. What are we? judging someone by their appearance and showing our character. In a country like Pakistan where literacy rate 60% but people judge you by the language you speak i.e. English. Is English the parameter to judge someone’s intelligence. People are being judged by two things: their complexion and English.

How strange is it that western who always used to judge people by their complexion now spend hours baking themselves in front of the sun to get the best color or repeatedly spray themselves with chemicals to get the perfect tan. For centuries people have been discriminated against by such parameters. Here I am not defending people who are dark or tanned but I really want to know why is this? https://resource.wur.nl/nl/show/Blog-Is-a-fair-skin-more-beautiful.htm We are what we are, Allah made us like that no one should change themselves by getting tanned or by using whitening injections. World is progressing and in a world full of science and technology we need to break these stereotypes. It's okay for boys to cry and it’s okay for girls to play whatever sport they want to. It’s okay to have a dark complexion and no one is allowed to call you ugly. It’s okay if you’re healthy, it’s okay if you’re short, it’s okay if you’re taller than many of your cousins. It’s okay if you have an acne prone skin, it’s okay if your hair are not perfectly straight, it’s okay if you’re weird, it’s okay if you don’t want to wear lenses and you’re more comfortable in your specs, it’s okay if you cannot apply the perfect eyeliner, it’s all fine, it’s okay if you’re not perfect. No one is perfect. People are stupid if they have a definition of perfect. You are what you are, you don’t need to go to the gym just because people are talking about your figure. People will never be there with you forever. Humans consider themselves unique and their definition of uniqueness would always be different from one another. We die only once and we live every day. Part yourself from people who are the reason for your anxiety. Restore your peace, that's exactly where you need to be.